Showing posts with label Church. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Church. Show all posts

Monday, February 18, 2008

Home Improvement

This month's series was all about Marriage and the Family.

February 3
"Just the One of Us" - Unity in your marriage
I. A holy marriage is made in God's image
II. A holy marriage gives up self
III. A holy marriage keeps the spouse above other people

February 10
"TNT: Handle with Care" - The explosive nature of bringing up teens
I. Team - Parenting is a partnership
II. Nurture - Parents must learn to listen and encourage
III. Train - Parents must both teach and model the Christian life

February 17
"Playground of the Mind" - Adultery begins in thoughts and fantasies
I. Decide to keep your eyes in check
II. Decide not to place yourself in tough situations
III. Decide not to complain about your spouse

February 24 through March 23 is the Journey to Jerusalem.

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

2008 Southern Area Ministers' Conference

Monday and Tuesday brought the Southern Area Ministers' Conference back to SWU. It's been two years since the last one and I had been anticipating it for quite some time now. This year's conference solidified itself as one of the best.


Monday, Feb. 11 at 7:00 pm - Dan Seaborn, Winning at Home, Inc.

Dan related our trials in ministry to Goliath. David, a true teenager, asked why no one had challenged him. David relied on God's power (and not his own, or Saul's for that matter) to bring down the giant. It's our time to step up and fight in the power of God with the stone of faith in our sling and take down the giant that stands against God's people and God's name.


Tuesday, Feb. 12 at 8:30 am - Dan Seaborn, Winning at Home, Inc.

Dan Seaborn founded Winning at Home, Inc. to aid families in keeping homes together. Married for Life is his campaign to get 1,000,000 couples to sign a contract stating that they will be married to each other for life. So far over 10,000 couples have signed and made that commitment.


Divorce is killing ministers of God's Word, but no one just runs and jumps off the cliff of divorce. It's a process of steps toward the edge.

7 steps that lead to the cliff of divorce:
1) Keeping secrets from a spouse
2) Finding sexual fulfillment in secret acts/pornography
3) Red flags in other relationships
4) Your mind strays and you picture yourself with another person
5) Justifying an action that in the past you said was wrong
6) Hanging out in "dangerous" places and with "dangerous" people
7) You don't care if you say hurtful things to or about your spouse

...and don't forget to say, "I'm sorry."


Tuesday, Feb. 12 at 10:30 am - Dr. John Adams, Easley First Baptist Church

Americans are plagued by toxins in the body. Deep-breathing exercises are widely used in Europe to rid the body of those toxins. A deep breath in, hold...and slowly release. This allows the body to expel those toxins in the stomach. In the same way, we must deeply breathe in the Holy Spirit. As we hold the Spirit in, we allow a full work to happen. Then, when we exhale, all the toxins (anger, hate, grudges, etc...) that poison our souls are expelled.

Forgiveness is one of the ways that the Holy Spirit does its work. Dr. Adams read a quote by a person whose name I have now forgotten: "God invented forgiveness as the only way to keep his romance with the human race alive." Without it, we would have no hope.


Ann Lamont said "Not forgiving is like drinking rat poison and waiting for the rat to die." It's time to get rid of the poison for good.

Forgiveness is...
...refusing the right to get even
...rediscovering the humanity of the person who hurt us
...wishing the person who hurt us well


Tuesday, Feb. 12 at 7:00 pm - Dr. John Adams, Easley First Baptist Church

Dr. Adams related four words that remind us that we are beloved of God:


Chosen - God saw us so long ago and had a great plan for us to be the bearers of His message.
Blessed - God has given us His blessing as minister's of the gospel.
Broken - Until we realize that we are broken, we cannot become whole in Christ.
Given - We are handed the most important message of history and asked to give it to those who need it most.

After the message came the table. Everyone participated in communion, which is always a special time at SAMC.


Overall, it was quite amazing. Can't wait for the next one.

Next week brings Holiness Lecture Series with the one, the only, Steve Deneff. Oh man, it's gonna be awesome!

Monday, January 21, 2008

PureFocus

Don't let your youth group miss it!

Sunday, January 06, 2008

Taming Lions

[Sermon preached January 6, 2008, at Smith Chapel Wesleyan.]

King Nebuchadnezzar of Babylon conquered Judah and carried away the nobility in the late seventh century B.C. A young man named Daniel was taken into captivity at this time. Because of his wisdom and interpretation of dreams, He worked his way up in the kingdom and eventually became the third highest ruler in the country under another king, Belshazzar. All of a sudden, the management changed and King Darius the Mede was in charge. Darius made Daniel one of three administrators of his kingdom. Now, imagine just for a moment how you would feel if you were one of the Babylonian or Persian leaders, and a foreign kid starts to work his way up in your kingdom! You have spent your entire life trying to make it to the top. Then, in struts some guy who does not worship the same god as you and does not know your culture, but he gets the job you have been working for. What would you do?

Here is what Darius’ leaders did. They came up with a plan to trap Daniel. They knew his habit of prayer and devised a scheme that would use it against him. The other administrators and rulers convinced Darius to make a law which banned prayer to anyone but the king for thirty days. The king made the law official and so the trap was set.

Let’s pick up reading there. [Daniel 6:10-26]

10 Now when Daniel learned that the decree had been published, he went home to his upstairs room where the windows opened toward Jerusalem. Three times a day he got down on his knees and prayed, giving thanks to his God, just as he had done before. 11 Then these men went as a group and found Daniel praying and asking God for help. 12 So they went to the king and spoke to him about his royal decree: "Did you not publish a decree that during the next thirty days anyone who prays to any god or man except to you, O king, would be thrown into the lions' den?"
The king answered, "The decree stands—in accordance with the laws of the Medes and Persians, which cannot be repealed."
13 Then they said to the king, "Daniel, who is one of the exiles from Judah, pays no attention to you, O king, or to the decree you put in writing. He still prays three times a day." 14 When the king heard this, he was greatly distressed; he was determined to rescue Daniel and made every effort until sundown to save him.
15 Then the men went as a group to the king and said to him, "Remember, O king, that according to the law of the Medes and Persians no decree or edict that the king issues can be changed."
16 So the king gave the order, and they brought Daniel and threw him into the lions' den. The king said to Daniel, "May your God, whom you serve continually, rescue you!"
17 A stone was brought and placed over the mouth of the den, and the king sealed it with his own signet ring and with the rings of his nobles, so that Daniel's situation might not be changed. 18 Then the king returned to his palace and spent the night without eating and without any entertainment being brought to him. And he could not sleep.
19 At the first light of dawn, the king got up and hurried to the lions' den. 20 When he came near the den, he called to Daniel in an anguished voice, "Daniel, servant of the living God, has your God, whom you serve continually, been able to rescue you from the lions?"
21 Daniel answered, "O king, live forever! 22 My God sent his angel, and he shut the mouths of the lions. They have not hurt me, because I was found innocent in his sight. Nor have I ever done any wrong before you, O king."
23 The king was overjoyed and gave orders to lift Daniel out of the den. And when Daniel was lifted from the den, no wound was found on him, because he had trusted in his God.
24 At the king's command, the men who had falsely accused Daniel were brought in and thrown into the lions' den, along with their wives and children. And before they reached the floor of the den, the lions overpowered them and crushed all their bones.
25 Then King Darius wrote to all the peoples, nations and men of every language throughout the land: "May you prosper greatly!
26 "I issue a decree that in every part of my kingdom people must fear and reverence the God of Daniel.
"For he is the living God and he endures forever; his kingdom will not be destroyed, his dominion will never end.

The first thing I notice is that Daniel was willing to show his faith. His faith was not something that he hid from public view. He prayed at his window every day. Anyone who passed by could have seen him.

Daniel did not back down. We learn that even after he found out about the new law - a law that came with a death penalty - he went to his room and prayed. Sometimes, God may ask us to take a stand that goes against what people have called a norm. This nonconformity will certainly attract attention.

Not only did he not back down, but Daniel did not compromise in the slightest. At the end of verse 10, Daniel is praying and giving thanks to God “just as he had done before”. Nothing was different. No law or death threat or hate crime could keep him from his daily faith. Do you find yourself changing your habits to please others or to keep from trouble? God is asking you to be faithful in every part of your spiritual life, even in the little things - especially in the little things.

The second thing I notice about Daniel’s faith is that it was tested. Many times, we hear stories about people who escaped great trial because God kept them from being caught. Take Rahab for instance. She could have been killed for housing spies, but God protected her. There are countless other stories in which God miraculously protected someone from being detained. Daniel was not one of these people. His defiance of the king’s law lasted only a few days before he was arrested. Martin Luther King, Jr. said that Christianity is “costly and never altogether comfortable, [it] may mean walking through the valley of the shadow of suffering…we are gravely mistaken to think that Christianity protects us from the pain and agony of mortal existence.”

Daniel’s faith brought about punishment by human law. The key word there is human. As humans, we are imperfect and so - it only follows - that our laws are sometimes imperfect. God may ask us to break a human law in order to fulfill a Divine law. King Darius issued a decree out of pride and ignorance. His law was not God’s law, and his law had a very serious penalty: Daniel was to be fed to lions.

In this, we see that Daniel’s faith brought about not only a punishment, but a persecution. The law that was passed was a direct attack on Daniel’s faith. Earlier in verse 5, the rulers said to each other, “we will never find any basis for charges against this man Daniel unless it has something to do with the law of his God.” Daniel could have saved himself if only he had given up prayer for one month, but instead, he chose to continue his pattern of talking to God. This brought about the punishment and the persecution, but this was not the end of the matter.

The third aspect of Daniel’s story is a reward for faithfulness. One promise from God is that the faithful will receive reward either in this life or the next. Hebrews 11, the “Hall of Faith”, has a great list of those who were repaid for their devotion to God. Verse 33 begins a catalog of the rewards of men’s faith. It reads, “…faith conquered kingdoms, administered justice and gained what was promised…shut the mouths of lions (that’s our friend Daniel), quenched the fury of the flames…routed armies…” It goes on later: “Women received back their dead, raised to life again.” On the other side of the coin, we are guaranteed recompense for faithfulness when Christ returns. In Matthew 5:11 and 12, Jesus says, “Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven…”

Faith brings salvation. Daniel was not willing to compromise, and this stand put him in a very tight spot. The lions’ den was the place of execution and a gruesome place as well. Darius threw Daniel into the pit and came back the next day to find Daniel calmly sitting with the lions. Not only was Daniel spared from death, but he was not harmed at all. Verse 23 confirms that “no wound was found on him, because he had trusted in his God.” At times, though, we must endure the persecution and punishment without direct deliverance. Oswald Chambers once wrote “Faith for my deliverance is not faith in God. Faith means, whether I am visibly delivered or not, I will stick to my belief that God is love. There are some things only learned in a fiery furnace.” God has not promised to save us from danger as he saved Daniel, but he has promised to save us from eternal death if we have faith in His Son, Jesus. Dr. King was right in saying that “the cross we bear precedes the crown we wear.”

Faith also brings glory to God. This should be the highest aim of our faith. The faith of one man caused an entire nation to be changed. Darius, in light of Daniel’s salvation, made a new decree that read “in every part of my kingdom people must fear and reverence the God of Daniel.” God was magnified through Daniel. The glorification of God is the chief reason for our service to Him. We are made and we should live for His praise.

God is asking us today to look at our faith. First, your faithfulness must be shown. We are being challenged to stand up for Christ and not compromise the Gospel. Second, your faithfulness might be tested. We must understand that punishment and persecution by people might be - and quite possibly should be - a regular part of our lives. Lastly, your faithfulness will be rewarded. We need to realize that we are not abandoned or alone, because God has promised salvation if we will glorify Him in all we do.

Saturday, January 05, 2008

10 Things I Love About...Being a Pastor/Youth Pastor

1. Teaching
2. Preaching
3. Creative freedom, somewhat
4. Working with PowerPoint
5. Running Sound
6. Knowing that I'm planting seeds
7. Gaining invaluable experience
8. Seeing teens worship
9. Youth camps/conventions
10. Working for Jesus

10 Things I Hate About...Being a Pastor/Youth Pastor

1. Full-time hours
2. Part-time pay
3. Being "uncool" again
4. Fund raising
5. Still never enough $$$
6. Shape Notes
7. "We've always done it that way"
8. Boy-crazy girls
9. Some, but not all, parents
10. Responsibility

Thursday, January 03, 2008

I pronounce it "Flah-duh"


This ain't Kansas, Toto, or South Carolina for that matter. My youth group, The CORE, from Smith Chapel Wesleyan Church in Liberty just got back from SetApart07. The International Wesleyan Youth Convention took place in Orlando, Florida, from December 28-30. A trip to Universal Studios then followed on the 31st. The bus ride home included New Years.

The busses sat in the parking lot of United Wesleyan Church near Easley. All suitcases, teens and sponsors were loaded by a few minutes after midnight. The trek south began in the deep of night. It wasn't long before most of the passengers were sleeping except for me. I can't sleep in a moving vehicle. It was a long night and Golden Corral greeted us in Orlando.

Registration was much easier than I expected and we set off for the mall to watch a movie. The 1.5 mile trip took over half an hour, plus the half an hour wait time to get on the bus. We watched National Treasure: Book of Secrets, which I recommend. The movie let out at 5:30 and it took us an hour and a half to get back. Add those together and you get...that's right, 7 pm, which just happens to be right when the night session was set to begin.

Our seats were about two thirds of the way back and there was no use trying to see the stage. The two large screens set halfway back gave everyone a great view. Sevenglory performed, then Steve Fee led worship, followed by the opening message ("Set Apart for God") by Efrem Smith of Kingdom Building Ministries. It's always a little difficult to get into the first service, so it wasn't a ground-breaking message for most of the people there.

The next morning Building 429 opened the service. Our seats were about 10 rows from the back, so we didn't really see much. After worship, Marilyn Laszlo spoke about her experiences in Papau New Guinea, called "Set Apart for the World", and left us with the challenge to use whatever you have in your hand for God. She was a great speaker and many of her stories were moving.

Saturday night boasted a performance by Kutless, which was the first thing that my teens really liked. This is the first time some of them and I went up front for the concert and worship. Shaun and Theresa Blakeney spoke about being "Set Apart for Purity" including sexuality.

Kevin Myers, garbed in black leather jacket, spoke Sunday morning and brought his motorcycle on stage to talk about an intimidation tactic he used to protect his daughter from some bullies. He cranked it up and let it roar inside the building (a $200 fine according to the fire marshall). It was a great message on being "Set Apart for Life". Everyday Sunday's mini-concert started things off before the service.

Fireflight rocked the start of the service and Efrem gave the last message of the convention on Sunday night. Family Force 5 ripped the place apart with their concert after the last service. I had forgotten how much fun their concerts were. My face melted off several times and had to be surgically replaced.

Monday's adventure included Universal Studios Orlando. Some of the attractions we got to experience were Shrek 4-D, Twister special effects, Disaster green screen effects, Jaws, E.T., The Mummy twice, and many more. It was loads of fun.

At 8:30 we packed back into the busses and headed back toward SC. A few hours into the trip, midnight rolled around and as the clock tripped over to 2008, we passed Jacksonville. A river dissects the city. We parked on the I-95 bridge and watched fireworks being shot off of a barge in the river between skyscrapers. It was awesome! With several stops in between J-ville and SC, including almost running out of gas, we made it back in 11 hours. The parking lot of United greeted us once again and we groggily (as I had not slept on the bus) moved our bags to our personal vehicles. Bed was a welcome sight.

Many thanks to the Wesleyan Church for a great youth convention. Can't wait for the next one, Somewhere??? '09.